Monday 11 November 2013

#4. Don't become friends with your friends friends

This has actually been a rule of mine for a while but I broke it a couple of months ago and have been reaping the consequences since.
Now I've been friends with this girl for a while mostly due to circumstances because she went to my Primary School and then my Secondary School and she also lives near me. Okay and she's also really annoying and there are times where I seriously dislike her. But at the end of the day I'm big on loyalty. Whether she's worthy of that loyalty is another matter entirely.
So we have quite a tempestuous relationship was only gotten worse this year, God only know why and when she through a house party I was introduced to a few of her friends. Namely this one guy that I think she'd invited to upset some other ex friend of hers. Somehow we ended up becoming quite close only since exams have been over I've been trying to figure we're even so close. In the sense that he says things in a way I haven't heard before so things are always interesting but we spend a good 20% of our time together bitching about the other friend. And the worst part of it all is I really have no reason to trust him this way, the very fact that he's bitching with me means his loyalty is questionable. Actually I think he's only been close to my friend from the same time as me.
But the whole situation creates way too much confusion. While this whole threesome shit is going on I'm never going to trust that what I'm saying isn't going to get back to my friend.